by Shop SoSis January 18, 2016

Yesterday in the early morning hours, we were awoken by a phone call from our mom. Our 88 year-old grandfather, Raymond Julian Laborde, passed away in his sleep.

Since we can remember, our Paw Paw has been the cornerstone of the Laborde family. A person that never stopped, Paw taught us many things in life.

Work hard. Really, really hard. It's no secret. Paw Paw loved Raymond's Department Store. Set on the courthouse square in downtown Marksville (que the local radio commercial), we grew up knowing it as "Paw Paw's store." Up until just three days ago, Paw Paw wanted to be in his store. It's what kept him going all these years. It gave him purpose and, in our opinion, kept him sharp as a whip until the day of his passing. In a sense, our first experience in the retail business started at Paw Paw's store. Nearly every grandchild worked in the store every summer to help during "uniform season." Paw opened at 7 a.m. (never later) and closed at 5 p.m. (never earlier). He'd only lock the doors if he had a good reason to and the only time we can remember him doing so is when our family took our annual Gulf Shores vacation every summer on Memorial Day Weekend. Paw Paw will never know the influence he had on us. We could have never told him enough how much his opinion and advice meant to us. In October of last year, we hosted a pop-up shop right in front of his store in Marksville. As expected, Paw Paw was there, directing and advising us. "Now, y'all have too many clothes on that rack. Are you going to move some around?" Oh yes, Paw, we sure are. In November 2015, the Marksville Weekly News wrote a beautiful story on SoSis and talked a lot about the influence Raymond's Department Store had on Annie and I's dream. 

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The first part of the article reads: For 65 years, Avoyelles hoppers have been able to buy their clothes, shoes and sundries at a locally-owned store in Marksville. Now, a new generation enjoys a new way of shopping, but Avoyelles consumers who prefer online shopping to the old-fashioned way can still find a Laborde to satisfy their shopping itch.

 

Always give a firm handshake. Since Paw Paw left the state legislature in 1992 (Chelsey was 4 and Annie Claire was 8 years old), most of our memories don't involve politics. Contrary to many people who can recognize a bright red Raymond Laborde bumper sticker in no time, we remember our Paw Paw standing in the doorway of Raymond's Department Store waving to passerby on the street. When an old friend stops in for coffee (and to talk politics), you could guarantee he received a firm handshake. It's something Paw Paw taught us during the long summer days working at his store. Look people in the eye and give them a firm handshake. First impressions weren't something Paw took lightly. Up until just a few years ago, Paw would wear a suit coat to work in his store. Although his grandchildren were mostly greeted by him with a tight hug and a kiss on the ear (we think he meant to catch our cheek, but always tended to pop our ear instead) he had the best handshake.

 

Love unconditionally. We can remember when Paw and Granny celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. We were working in the store that summer. Granny came in around 11 a.m. like she always did to bring Paw a ham sandwich - remember, during "uniform season" you couldn't go home for lunch. Sitting down with us to visit, Granny propped herself on the back work table -- a vivid memory of our childhood. On the local radio station, KLIL, we hear the birthday and anniversary announcements."Congratulations Mr. & Mrs. Raymond Laborde on 50 years of marriage!" (or something like that). We tell Paw, "Congratulations Paw Paw!" He comes back with, "That's a looooonnnnngggg time married to one person."

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Married for 64 years, we know Granny sure is happy she went on that blind date in New Orleans with a small town boy from Marksville.

Don't be afraid of a little competition. When Paw first started carrying uniforms in his department store, he knew he would have to compete with the larger chains to keep his customers. But with a history of successful political campaigns, competition wasn't something he was afraid of.  For a long time, he was the place to go for Levis and Dickies, still is today, but when the public schools enforced a uniform policy, Paw took advantage of this opportunity.  He always knew what Wal-Mart's prices were for school shirts and pants and would mark his prices accordingly.  He greeted every single person that walked into the store with a smile and offered the highest level of customer service, even if they didn't find what they needed.  You can't beat that.  One thing we learned and still use to this day is how to count change back to a customer.  Paw, with his old fashioned ways, was adamant about doing this in his store and we will forever think of him when we do this.  

 

Stay organized and have a system. Everything about Raymond's Department Store was old fashioned, which is what makes it so unique.  But the unpacking boxes, hanging clothes on racks, keeping them in order by size, school and color is still something that makes a successful retail store happen.  It's something we at SoSis do on a daily basis and credit our OCD-ness to none other than our grandfather.  He had a very particular way of doing things that you just didn't mess. It taught us passion and pride in every step of the way when running a business.  He also taught us how to be humble.  If you work hard, you will be successful, but always appreciate where you come from and how you got there.  There will be trials and errors that you learn when starting up, but you must be strong enough to learn from them and not let them knock you down.

 

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This picture was taken in 2011 during one of our family trips to Gulf Shores. And yes, we're wearing political red matching T-shirts....all for Paw Paw.





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Caroline
Caroline

May 03, 2016

I somehow missed this special post on the first go round. Just read it and teared up! What a touching tribute to the Laborde patriarch! Love this so much. Know Paw Paw is smiling down from heaven, so proud of his girls!!

Cherie
Cherie

January 28, 2016

This beautifully captures the special relationship your family had with your grandfather. He was a fine man and will be missed by many. Sending love to you and your family.

Celeste Small
Celeste Small

January 28, 2016

Chelsey what a beautiful tribute to your Grandfather. I first met him in high school and everything you said is spot on. I remember his smile and my share of hugs whenever I saw him. He has left a wonderful legacy for his family.

Jessica St.Romain Dauzat
Jessica St.Romain Dauzat

January 28, 2016

Rip Mr Raymond you will never be forgotten. You were a very caring person I remember going in with my mom years ago to buy my uniforms and now with my kids and over the years you never changed a bit. You will be greatly missed by your customers and I know also by your family. My heart goes out to the family because losing a grandparent is not easy at all. But the memories will last forever.

Mal
Mal

January 28, 2016

What a beautiful tribute to a great man. Sending positive thoughts and prayers that your grief will be assuaged by the loving memories you have of him. Love you girls!

Victoria Templet
Victoria Templet

January 28, 2016

Beautiful story Chel! I know he had to be so proud of you two! I’m so glad I had a chance to meet him and Granny! Love yall dearly and will continue to pray for your family’s peace!

Janice tison
Janice tison

January 28, 2016

Beautiful!!! Mr. Raymond was always a very kind gentleman. My favorite memory of him is on Friday nights he would be in the press box announcing the football games. RIP Mr Raymond!!

mickey webb dupont
mickey webb dupont

January 28, 2016

Rip:You will definitely leave a trademark in our hearts,a beautiful person and a great man.

Kimberly M Pierite
Kimberly M Pierite

January 28, 2016

What a beautiful tribute. He will be missed

Throw Me Somethin' Sista - SoSis
Throw Me Somethin' Sista - SoSis

January 28, 2016

[…] that only a day later, our sweet Paw Paw would pass away (you can catch up on our thoughts on that here). We are thankful for this little get together with our cousins where we reminisced about times […]

Gloria Moreau
Gloria Moreau

January 28, 2016

We often times don’t realize the impact of having grandparents’ influence on our lives while we are children. Everyone else saw him as “Mr.. Raymond” , “Mayor”, “Representative”, etc………but you guys saw him as just pawpaw, and that perhaps was his greatest accomplishment. He sounds like the best pawpaw any kid could want!! Our sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family.

Heather Savage
Heather Savage

January 28, 2016

So sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers for you and yours love yall dearly RIP Mr. Marksville

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